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Monday, December 8, 2008

Q&A: Relations forbidden

QUESTIONS: We both are more than half a century. My husband never be the prayer, or too rare prayer, fasting also. Far to the Indiana charity. He always back into the night, drunk, do not go berserk and going at 8 am,

Since has, kegemarannya is watching Pornographic video. As a result he was trying to meliwati me. Up to now I still refutes this and trying mengelakkannya. Is there a correct, the husband-wife may meliwati especially in an emergency?

Faithful wife...

Answer: In human life, the more dihayun feet to the front, the hampirlah it's correct destination. That should live with. The more the number of age, the more hampirlah someone with death, the destination can not be avoided. Want or not, willing or forced, death remains meragut themselves when the time arrived without beginning or later.

The Messenger of Allah explains that his age is between 60-70 years old, only a few among them who should live beyond the age.

Islam told his suppliers to provide the Hereafter. Indeed, the best supply of the Hereafter is piety. Do what was governed by syarak, evade restrictions.

Included in the business and practice must be done to reach a peaceful rotation is to make a harmonious set-namely prayer five times, fasting, charity and pilgrimage to fulfill the leaders.

My sympathy to the women who pair with a man for 20 years, a long period, rightly admired as an example the wife and children. However, he failed to do so. No prayer, fasting and tithe. They are deliberately leaving this worship, when he attempted to do so, because in addition to not insignificant realizing the importance of worship, including the rebel groups.

Prayer is the pillar of religions. Age means that people establish religion. And the abandoned, meaning overthrow religion. Prayer to give the impression in the form sahsiah someone, preventing perpetrators of a crime and kemungkaran.

When the fast birth to a sense of conscious, understand the suffering of other human beings eventually establish the nature of piety in itself. Zakah cleanse themselves and property. From what we have, that we obtain from business done, there is a small part of the property of certain persons, which is very poor, they also stipulated that Sharia.

Worship-worship is not done by women husband. But the effect of prayer, worship is not existent in the women themselves husband because he does not fulfill the commandment to set up any claim that Islam. Because it is not complicated if the behavior berkecenderungan a crime.

No sympathy, cause a ruffian, the carpet, adding that should the wife and protected without a place in front of audiences. Similarly, attitudes that sometimes drunk, which is harmful to the intellect. One gift of God that there is no value, comparing that with the human animal also with other beings. Indeed, the wine capital crime.

Trend live now, there is disedari or seumpama not so difficult to repress current generation of video watching Pornographic. To turn it requires of all parties, namely parents, friends around at school or around the residence, authorities kingdom, schools and so forth.

As long as someone wants to watch a video Pornographic forms, whereas the seller Pornographic video want the results whoredom scoop the money business, circular Pornographic video seumpama it can not be. However, if efforts to prevent it done with, the activities seumpama reduced.

Mannat

Pornographic video to watch in practice, including salary, which can implication to adultery, because it stimulates appetite, does not think the male or female, old or young. He was included in the factors or intervention that can cause a person is stuck with adultery. Hence, if these activities can be avoided, in most activities not directly adultery can also be avoided.

With the rise of militancy due to watch the video Pornographic, a berkemungkinan will do what purchasing. This applies to the husband and women, though reaching the age of 60-an. If this can apply to a man to be the information age, has a wife, of course, this will also apply to groups who have strong appetite for more.

Intercourse or sodomy of the rectum is sejahat-evil treatment, it is not possible to think of the fellow men or women, either in the anus or the wife is not the wife. Unlawful practices and ditegah syarak.

He has been a friend of the famous name called by Ali bin Talaq pleased, he said, a Bedouin .. has come to meet the Messenger and said: "O Messenger of Allah, there is a Change on a legal, I want to know. A man from our group are in the top of the field. Out of the men fart, the wind. He brings a little water. He wanted to take prayer and wuduk. If the water is used wuduk, what can be drunk when the opposition. Give us Petua Practice good that I can. "

Listen to the words for men was said: "If one of you terkentut, it must be the first with water, supposing there is no water, he can TAYAMMUM."

Then he said to him: "And do not you Go ye wife in their anus. But whereas God is not ashamed of that right "(Hasan Hadith).

It is comprehensive, including the wife alone, notwithstanding the above reasons the wife is in pain or cramps farajnya. In such circumstances, the husband must be patient to wait until the wife has been clean of menstruation or have been cured farajnya.

According to the Syafie, Wati in the anus (sodomy) that resembles the Wati granted on (the front) based on the proposition of the al-Quran and Hadith-Hadith.

According priest Syafie again, not for sayugia wife by the husband to death and sodomy to the top, supposing he was forced or dikasari, he can make a complaint to the caddy. Kadi be the husband of the medium to do so. Supposing the husband still brings it may punish as teaching or academic penalty with a more lightweight than punishment adultery. According to Abu Hanifah and Abu Yusuf, sodomy is illegal conduct legal.

Indeed, the practice of sodomy will not be done by their good mind. He does not look that they do so with the views of mercy. On this practice by the angel, also mankind.

In a hadith, Ibn Abbas, rather than, it was said to the man who mewati will be a man or woman on duburnya views with sympathy.

In a Hadith of Huzaimah bin sickle, stated there is a theme I have come to the practice of the Messenger's wife on the back. Is the lawful state. When the man asked that the outstanding go, the call back and ask, on what was ditanyanya, Wati, which is what is meant, or in which conducted. Will it make Wati from the back to the hole or faraj Wati, namely the back rectum? If Wati from the faraj then why not, but Wati from the back of the hole to the rectum, did not have to.

Tell him to friends, whereas God is not ashamed to tell what is right and important notified supposing they all want to call shame. Keep careful you do not do all you Wati against the wife on the duburnya. Hadith by an Nasaiy, Imam Ahmad and Ibn Habban.

In another hadith, the decree that: He who come to the women or women who have menstrual cramps in the duburnya, or find carpenters and fortune-telling, confirming what he said will, then the person has kufur with what has been revealed by God to the top Prophet Muhammad.''Historical Ahmad, at-Tarmizi and an Nasaiy.

The type of relationship

Information on the type of relationship do that through the anus is forbidden, and whether terlaknat against a wife. People who do not behave so healthy, because of that, supposing a husband act to do so, the wife does not obey His will, deservedly.

Sodomy is a sexual relationship outside tabii, not the practice of believers. Husband women like to watch the video Pornographic that can be found everywhere easily. Once she sodomy against women likely he will continue to be repeats. Perbuatannya will be stopped temporarily when the will to make nafsunya materialize. Arrival time alone again by dirangsang Pornographic video in the weeks it will do so again.

Husband women do not pray, no fasting, no charity is not known because there is not enough Nisab or merely dont want to explaint.

Normally, human like this, also will not fulfill pilgrimage. And in case he meliwat in addition to ignore Rukun Islam, then sin big enough network that also inhabit the self iktikad husband women. May Allah give him land and survive than women by sodomise.

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